How to be a Man Whisperer, with Stacy Kaiser

Tip #1 = Tell him to do what he needs to do.  

Payoff: he’s going to appreciate you respecting his wanting to do something and then will do something for you later.

What not to do: Don’t tell him he can’t have his space or tell him he can’t do what’s important to him.


Tip #2 = Tell him job well done.

Payoff: he’s going to continue.

What not to do: Nag and remind him how many times you’ve asked him to do something.


Tip #3 = Compliment him – even if he’ll never ask for it.

Payoff: He will feel good and be more complimentary towards you.

What not to do: don’t pick at him and tell him everything that’s wrong with him.


Tip #4 = Pick your battles – one thing at a time.

Only bring up something that is really an issue. If you can let an additional thing go don’t bring it up. Don’t declare all out war. No laundry bagging.

Payoff: you’ll avoid a fight and you won’t seem petty--you’ll seem logical.


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